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Living Outside Herself

November 18, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

Each afternoon they chatted beside the warm fire. 
He shared memories of his life as a young man, nearly century old memories.
She listened and sensed the man he once was when his life was full and productive.
Did you always want to be a traveling salesman?
No. I took whatever job came along after the war. I had to think of my wife and young kids. Did you always want to be a banker?
I never wanted to be a banker. I took whatever job came along after college.
Winter melted.  
Soon he would leave.
  
As they sat together on the porch swing, he thought of yesterday. 
She thought of something more. 
She dared to imagine a different life. 
Have you decided what you want to do when you grow up, he asked with a chuckle. 
Write. I’ve always wanted to write. But change is scary, unfamiliar. She glanced to the trees searching for answers.

He nodded in agreement. When you start to live outside yourself, it’s all dangerous. 
***

talya
Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.
This post was written for Write Tribe – Hemingway prompt (weave a story or poem around a Hemingway quote…)   “When you start to live outside yourself, it’s all dangerous.” – Ernest Hemingway, The Garden of Eden

Arkansas: My Happy Place

October 21, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

Once I cross the state line into Arkansas (from any direction), I can breathe and think as the pace seems to slow just a notch.

I was born there.

I couldn’t get away fast enough.

I hurry back as often as I can.

Arkansas is where I go to relax, recharge, remember.

I’m headed there today.

Hot Springs, Arkansas
Hot Springs
Mountain Home Arkansas
Lake Norfork

Arkansas My Happy Place
Dairy Hollow Writer’s Colony, Eureka Springs

Arkansas My Happy Place
Keiser
My Happy Place Arkansas
Hemingway-Pfeiffer, Piggott
My Happy Place Arkansas
Fayetteville

Arkansas My Happy Place
The Farm. Mississippi County

Maya Angelou said the ache for home lives in all of us. 

Where’s your happy place?

talya

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.


“Everybody has to leave, everybody has to leave their home and come back so they can love it again for all new reasons.” 
― Donald Miller

Musical Pairing:

Los Lonely Boys, Heaven

Strawberry Goat Cheese Thai Basil Crostini

September 27, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

Foodie Friday

made with Strawberry Fruit Spread from Hemingway-Pfeiffer Museum
This is a great brunch appetizer, snack or dessert. 
Toasted Sourdough
Drizzle of Olive Oil
Berry Jam
Goat Cheese Crumbles
Thai Basil
Thai basil is a peppery, anaise-flavored version of basil with smaller, deep green leaves and purple-hued stems. The flowers make a nice garnish and are edible as well. 
strawberry goat cheese thai basil crostini
Thai Basil
For this recipe, regular basil or fresh sage works great too.


talya
Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life

It is very hot and dry here…We have had an abundance of fine fruit so far this season. Cherries, berries, plums and early peaches but the dryness is affecting the apples and everyone’s disposition.—Mary Pfeiffer, July 1933 (in a letter to her daughter Pauline and son-in-law Ernest Hemingway in Key West…)
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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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