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I could tell you a story…

June 25, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

I suspect each person who crosses my path somehow knows my mother—the checker at Whole Foods, the man begging for money on the corner, the random woman who ran into the back of my son’s Xterra on Northwest Highway.

After last night, I know this to be true.
While enjoying a glass of wine with neighbor Harry on his front porch, a lady parked curbside and walked toward us with her father. 
“Harry, this is my Dad. We drove over to see the old house and thought we’d say hello.”
“Where’re you from?” Harry asked the man who sat directly across from me on the porch pew.
“Memphis.” 
Now I’m curious and oddly connected to this stranger on Harry’s magical porch where interesting things seem to happen.
“I grew up just outside Memphis.” I join the conversation.
“Where?” He asked me.
“On a farm between Keiser and Osceola.”
“I could tell you a story about Keiser.” He becomes animated.

“If it’s about my mother, I already know it.” I could match your Keiser story and raise you ten, I think…

“I just returned from Keiser.” He said. “My wife and I went to the Keiser High School Reunion.”

Now I’m oddly related to this stranger on Harry’s porch.
“Oh yeah, my mother missed the reunion this year because of her knee surgery.”

“Barbara Tate wasn’t there either. She had knee surgery. She’s in Texas with her two daughters.” His comment was more rhetorical as though he spoke to himself.

“Yeah, I know.”

“How do you know?”

“She’s my mother.”

Whose your mother?

“Barbara Tate.”

“Who are you?”

“One of her two daughters in Texas.”
He almost fell off the pew on Harry’s porch. But not me. I’ve come to expect these sorts of conversations.

“So are you related to Thomas Tate?”

“He was my Daddy.” 
“My wife and your mother are good friends. Your mother’s other friend wasn’t at the reunion either – oh what’s her name? – they’ve been friends since they were kids…”

“Lou Perry?”

“Yeah! You know her too?”

“She was my school librarian.”

and that’s how my night started…
talya
It’s a small world, but I wouldn’t want to have to paint it. -Steven Wright
Musical Pairing:

Abracadabra, Steve Miller Band

K is for Keiser

April 12, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

Keiser, Arkansas
At first glance, my home town may not look like much. An hour from the nearest mall and surrounded by rice fields, Keiser is a small speck on the map of Arkansas, a blur to those driving somewhere else. Yet filtered among the watchful cottonwood trees, memories live—memories of cheerleader practice, Halloween carnivals, best friends, the Yellow Jacket Cafe with mouth-watering burgers and onion rings. 
I drive the streets to recharge and refill, to remember the place rooted deeply in my mind. To remember myself.

Talya Tate - Keiser Elementary

Although the gin is boarded-up, I imagine the highway once lined with over-filled cotton trailers, the wind blowing and spilling a trail of white along the side of the road like snow. The stadium lights went dark years ago, yet the buzz of junior high football lingers in my heart.

I feel your smile, even though you’re gone.

Keiser Elementary School
I remember.

talya

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

K-E-I-S-E-R-J-A-C-K-E-T-S, hey-hey, clap, stomp, clap clap, repeat. Keiser Jackets sting ’em!

“There are some important things to remember always, no matter how hard life presses at you. One of these things is that wherever you are, and no matter for how long, there must be a home to hold you.” – Sheila Moon, Knee Deep in Thunder

Musical Pairing:

Turning Home, David Nail

old best friends

March 5, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

A few years later
best friends laugh and reminisce,
just remembering.

talya (& craig)

Musical Pairing:

Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is? Chicago

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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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