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Sunday Letter: 09.27.2020

September 27, 2020 By Talya Tate Boerner 7 Comments

Sunday Letter

Dear Sunday Letter friends,

Hallelujah! I think a gorgeous fall may be unfolding here in the Ozarks. It seems a safe prediction based on the leaves in the picture above. I took this picture three days ago in our neighborhood. I don’t know why the sight of turning leaves thrills me, but it does.

The first thing I do to welcome a new season is to switch out my front door wreath. I did that this week, but I’ve not bought any pumpkins yet. Some of my neighbors started really early this year, stacking pumpkins on their porches two or three weeks ago. Anything to move on through 2020? I think that must be the consensus.

Bottom line=> Fall is here and these cooler days feel like blessed salvation to me.

Doe, a Deer

Something else I’ve noticed about this year—I’m pretty sure if we accidentally left our back screen door open, the deer would claim the back porch as their new home. Our back yard isn’t all that large, and in years before, the deer have avoided the fenced-in area.

Not any more. The rules no longer apply anywhere about anything it seems.

This doe enjoyed salvia for breakfast on Thursday morning. And her friend was waiting behind the garage.

deer in yard

Is it just me or has every day this entire year been a page ripped from The Far Side calendar?

deer

Arlene: Oh for goodness sakes, there she is again, always taking our picture.

Teddy: She must be one of those social media stalkers we’ve been warned about.

Another Monarch

You never know where a monarch might decide to transform, but it’s usually only a few feet from its milkweed food source. I noticed a chrysalis this week attached near the tip of a dried stem of Liatris. I’m so glad I didn’t deadhead this plant.

Here’s the Liatris in July. Such a beautiful bloomer and butterfly magnet.

liatris in july

Here’s the chrysalis attached to it now. Evidently the butterfly monarchs love it even when the blooms have faded. There’s a lesson there, y’all. Maybe more than one.

monarch chrysalis
I imagine the plant (or stone wall or patio chair or screen window) chosen to support a monarch chrysalis during such a miraculous transformation must feel it has been paid the ultimate compliment.

90 Days Gone

Y’all, it has been over 90 days since Lucy passed away. This was the last picture I took of Annabelle and Lucy together (May 2020).

Annabelle and Lucy

We sure miss our sweet little girl.

People ask us how Annabelle is doing, and for the most part she seems to be okay. I’m sure she is enjoying all the extra attention and long walks. But there are times when we suspect she misses her best friend the way we do.

A few days ago, I found her lying in the mulch at Lucy’s grave. It’s the first time she’s paid any attention to that area of the backyard. (Lucy is buried beneath the stones—we still haven’t found a proper marker for her.) Annabelle stayed there for some time. And I was reminded of the saddest book EVER—Where the Red Fern Grows.

Lucy and Annabelle

I think Annabelle may have been telling secrets to Lucy.

Did you know they are talking about getting a puppy? I don’t know how to feel about that. How should I feel about that. What do you think, Lucy? Will I be in charge of her? Hmmm? I’ll keep you posted.

Annabelle🐶🐶🐶

Game Day!

Yesterday, I thoroughly enjoyed watching college football for an entire afternoon (Arkansas) and evening (Baylor). It’s not just the game, it’s the tradition of it. John made his first pot of chili of the season. We had the requisite dips and chips and fixins for frito pies. Momma, my sister, and my sister-in-law joined us.

Life felt pretty normal the entire day/night. And normal was not only appreciated, but it was very much needed.

Time will tell if Saturday football will continue. I sure hope so. But realistically, college campuses and coronavirus sure cozied up quickly. And sometimes those quick relationships don’t last.

Things Momma Says

Well….watching this game is like watching a car rust.

🏈🏈🏈

Something I’ve been thinking about lately… I’ve spent way too much time moaning about how crazy 2020 has been, whining about events that have been cancelled and the places I’ve not gone, writing off the bulk of the year as though it has been completely lost to coronavirus. But that’s not true. Good things have happened this year too.

I’m not going to let the remainder of the year be thrown away. I’m going to do my best to enjoy the last quarter of the year. Even though it won’t look like prior fall seasons, there are still a world of simple joys to be discovered every day.

I plan to focus on those things.

Join me if you’d like.

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

 

Filed Under: Sunday Letter Tagged With: Liatris, Lucy and Annabelle, Monarch butterflies

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Comments

  1. Sharon Lamb says

    September 27, 2020 at 8:43 am

    I’m a retired third grade teacher. Every few years I would read Where the Red Fern Grows aloud to my class. When I got to the really sad parts I would call on one of my best readers to take over for me to avoid the embarrassment of breaking down in front of 25 eight year olds. 😂

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    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      September 27, 2020 at 11:20 am

      It is the saddest! And even knowing the story, it was the first movie to make me cry.

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  2. Cathy v says

    September 27, 2020 at 8:54 am

    Yesterday did feel pretty normal with both OU and Razorbacks playing. We ordered in pizza and watched with our granddaughter! She is what is making 2020 an amazing year.

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    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      September 27, 2020 at 11:20 am

      I’m glad you had a normal-ish Saturday too. I’m sure having a grandchild makes everything better!

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  3. Valeria says

    September 27, 2020 at 9:37 am

    Thank you for the positive message, we all need it.
    …your mum is always fun!❤️

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    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      September 27, 2020 at 11:21 am

      Thanks Valeria! She’s always entertaining.

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  4. Dorothy Johnson says

    September 29, 2020 at 4:40 pm

    What a great quote from Momma! I may have to borrow it.
    The deer have feasted on my flowers several times this summer. They’re especially fond of our hosta and impatiens, which was annoying; yet I do think they’re beautiful creatures.
    I always think of Lucy when I picture you in your home, and those pictures of Annabelle lying by her resting place made me sad for all of you.
    It’s still a little early for us, but I’m looking forward to the fall color, and these cool days are making me itch to buy pumpkins, mums, and ornamental cabbage.

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