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in the blink of an eye

August 9, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

Life can change in the blink of an eye. In a heartbeat. We all know this but don’t expect it to happen. Not really. One minute things are customary and safe, the days filled with the familiar pattern of life, and suddenly nothing is ever the same again.

Tommy Van Zandt’s life changed on February 7, 2009. Trimming tree limbs on his property after a huge Northwest Arkansas ice storm, he fell from a ladder and suffered a severe neck injury which left him paralyzed from the shoulders down. In that one moment, his world was altered.

Tommy and my husband attended high school together in Ft. Smith, Arkansas. And college together at the University of Arkansas. Woo Pig Sooie! And we all three worked together in Dallas at the Bright Companies for several years until he moved back to Fayetteville to co-found a successful real estate company, Sage Partners.

He is an amazing spirit and still very much involved in the day-to-day activities of his company. But his daily struggles are significant, his journey difficult.

Tommy’s Nite Out III is scheduled for September 14, 2012 in Fayetteville, Arkansas. It will be a fun gathering of friends to raise awareness and support for Tommy and his family. His medical needs are great and insurance covers very little. Everyone should visit the site and participate in some way.
Even if all you can do is send a prayer for his recovery.
Tommy is one of us.
Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

“I thank my God every time I remember you.” Philippians 1:3

 

 

Filed Under: Arkansas, Life Tagged With: Dallas, Fayetteville, University of Arkansas

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  1. Colene says

    August 9, 2012 at 7:59 am

    Prayers! I remember when this happened. Yet he smiles!

    • TateFarmGirl says

      August 9, 2012 at 10:12 am

      Such a small world!

  2. Tim says

    August 9, 2012 at 9:17 am

    Thanks for sharing this, Talya. Tommy sounds like an amazingly incredible person, and he is blessed to have such awesome friends as you and John. I’m sure September 14 it will be a night to remember!

    • TateFarmGirl says

      August 9, 2012 at 10:13 am

      He is an inspiration.

  3. David and Theresa says

    August 9, 2012 at 10:32 am

    Great post! I am on the TNO III team and a close friend of Tommy’s since college. Thank you for sharing this. I will send out on FB/Twitter.

    • TateFarmGirl says

      August 9, 2012 at 1:23 pm

      Great, thanks! T.

  4. Anonymous says

    August 13, 2012 at 5:50 pm

    Thanks for posting, Talya. I will DEF share. What an inspiration he is to so many of us! Yep, life can change in a second. What a friend you are to care – what a friend you are to share! 🙂 Your Cousin, Cindy

  5. Anonymous says

    August 13, 2012 at 6:23 pm

    Such an amazing storey an My Prayers are there that God brings him back to full strenth but as of right now he is a wonderful inspiration to all who know him an or reads this with the smile he can still wear Good Luck Tommy on sept 14th an God is great!!!!Then his wonderful family around him an friends just like you to help him through these tough times May God Bless an Keep you all
    A friend of Cindy’s


Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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