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Dear Sunday Letter friends,
We survived the snowy, icy end to January, so yay for that. Now, February is here, the groundhog predicted six more weeks of winter, and a Chinese balloon has been spying on us, just blatantly gliding along witnessing our craziness up close and personal. The balloon is no more, but I guess any way you slice it, February is starting out a bit dicey.
BUT over here at my house, I’m trying to focus on the good. In fact, some of my friends and I have decided 2023 is the year we will celebrate the small things. And I think you should join us!
Don’t we often let small accomplishments pass by without truly acknowledging them, because, well, they are small things? No big deal. Simply pieces of the larger puzzle.
Those pieces are essential. Big wins are made up of small wins; without the pieces, the whole is never achieved.
Look at me being so philosophical…
Celebrate the Small Things
Yesterday I discovered a whole box of yellow highlighters hiding in a cabinet, perfectly timed, this discovery, exactly when I needed a yellow highlighter. So maybe I won’t throw a party over highlighters, but hey, this simple thing made me happy.
Or how about my recent travel experience… The fact that our flights from Austin and Dallas both left on time without delays or cancellation—that’s something worth celebrating (because we are real quick to grumble when flights are delayed). Right?
Anyway, my point is, if we focus on the good and celebrate the small victories, maybe we won’t dwell so much on the bad. Plus, I think our brains need victories, no matter how small.
In addition to the newly found highlighters, I’m celebrating these three small things:
- doing yoga five days in a row;
- entering Bernice Runs Away in a book contest; and
- breaking the 28,000 word count on my NEXT book. 😊
What small thing will you celebrate this week?
Something I’m Loving
I always look for interesting leaves while out walking. Noticing unique patterns in nature, unusual color, an early bud on a cold winter’s morning—there is beauty in the fading color of winter.
This leaf caught my eye last week just before several inches of sleet covered our world. I picked it up and brought it home and now it’s drying out on the kitchen windowsill, a reminder that an entire world lives beneath melting ice. Leaves are slowly breaking down and turning to mulch, hibernating creatures will begin to wake soon, bulbs will begin to stir as daylight hours grow longer.
Two weeks ago, this leaf lay buried beneath eight inches of snow. That in itself seems like a small miracle to me.
I can’t identify the leaf, can you?
Broken Branch Remedy
During the recent heavy snowfall, one of our dogwoods suffered a large split in the crown. As soon as the snow melted (and ten seconds before the next wintry weather swooped in), we doctored the break as best we could.
It was sooooo windy and cold that afternoon, I’m afraid it wasn’t our best work. But with John pressing the limb back together and me wrapping it, we temporarily protected the split from the next round of ice.
I’ve saved other breaks this way, so I have faith this branch will be saved too.
When a deer rutted a gaping wound on the trunk of our just-planted cherry tree, I wrapped it and left it wrapped for nearly a year. Thanks to Bambi, the tree’s growth will forever be stunted, but we didn’t lose it.
Two years ago when crazy weather broke a lower branch on our serviceberry bush, I wrapped it too. It is still wrapped today, but healing nicely. I know because I periodically unwrap and check its status. Not only is the break almost completely grown back together, but that particular branch has bloomed and produced fruit each year since.
When the weather warms a little, I will re-wrap the dogwood, trying to do a better job. Then we will wait and see how this tree does going forward.
(If you have a similar tree wound, I highly recommend Tree Wrap which comes in a roll like an ace bandage. The fabric is breathable which is important for growth.)
Oh, About My Yoga Practice
Now that I think about it, maybe the fact that I did yoga five days in a row is a BIG thing rather than a small thing. While yoga should be a quiet time for reflection, self-care, stretching and pushing my body, here’s what my yoga time looks like:
Evidently I need to take up dog yoga.
Things Momma Says:
I have loved my electric blanket this week.
Thanks for being part of another Sunday Letter, friends.
Forty-three days until Spring!
Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.
Sharon Collins says
I have not spent a lot of time outside this week, as the weather has not been great, plus we have been house bound due to an ancient dishwasher that developed a slow leak. I found a puddle of water in the hallway. Cleaning it up and finding another replacement puddle the following day led us to call our favorite plumber. Long story short, this has been an eventful 2 weeks. Our insurance company has been fabulous. When I called AMICA to report the claim, I actually had to sooth the lady who began the process. The contractor and his staff are the best ever. Not one glitch., we are having to forgo some of our spare time running errands. Our hawks are back. Though we have not seen them together, but have thoroughly enjoyed their presence in the neighborhood. We feed the birds and squirrels and other animals. We have not had to witness the food chain in action, so we not faced proof that anybody has been their breakfasts. Oh, we got a smidgen of snow this week. I love those snows when I awaken to a white layer of snow on the grass and it is melted before supper!
Talya Tate Boerner says
Sorry about your dishwasher problem. My sister has been going through a kitchen debacle too! We love seeing the hawks in our neighborhood. It’s so peaceful to watch them gliding on the breeze.
Colene says
I don’t really know but your leaf kind of looks like a cottonwood. Good news on the progress of your next book. Nice work on the branch repair. My small/big victory is perfecting homemade Greek yogurt. The highlight of February was a visit from our daughter and son-in-law.
Talya Tate Boerner says
It’s a tiny leaf though, about the size of a silver dollar. Glad you got to visit with family—that’s always a highlight. And perfecting Greek yogurt would be a huge thing for me because I buy it so often! Congrats!
Ruth Ann Trumbo says
I always enjoy your Sunday Letter. You have so much going on and many tips for living well. I guess you do yoga from tv. Who do you watch? I have gone to yoga once in 2 weeks. I love it! Have a great week and we will look for the little things to be happy about.
Talya Tate Boerner says
This week I have been doing it online from a site called doyogawithme.com – there is a free version which has plenty enough classes for me. When I first moved here I joined the Arkansas Yoga Center. I’m going to start the ones at the senior center now that I can!
Angie Garner says
I always enjoy reading your Sunday News Letters. Excited to hear you’re working on another book, can’t wait to read it when it’s finished. Bought some Vegetable Seeds this week and a Seed Starter Kit to get some of these started indoors. As a lover of Schnauzer’s I love to see your pictures and hear their stories, on a sad note my mini schnauzer crossed over the rainbow bridge. It’s been a difficult week experiencing her loss, my Bella Grace was my baby girl. But with all things this week I’ve realized sometimes you just gotta dance and count your blessings!
Talya Tate Boerner says
Oh I am so sorry about your sweet Bella Grace. I know how heartbreaking it is to lose a pet. Prayers for you as you navigate through this sad time.
Carol says
I met a new neighbor who saw me struggling to get my groceries in the day after the ice melted in Dallas.( It was still very cold.) He helped me get them to my door. I was grateful to have only lost power for a few hours during the ice storm..I heard and saw thundersleet for the first time. I experienced kindness this afternoon from a man at Office Depot who picked up the charge for some floral pics I was printing off for a spring journal. This is my grandson’s birthday month. Can’t believe he will be 11! Thank you for your Sunday Letter, Talya. Interesting how you wrapped your tree so it will heal.
Talya Tate Boerner says
Yay for kind people!! Happy birthday to your grandson. I can’t believe he will be 11 either.