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Sunday Letter: 01.31.2021

January 31, 2021 By Talya Tate Boerner 15 Comments

Dear Sunday Letter friends,

Well, well, well, here we are at the end of another fast-as-a-freight-train month. Spring really will be here before we know it. I look for it every day.

Yesterday I checked to see if our crocus was blooming, but saw no sign yet. I did notice our tulips are beginning to pop through the soil. Seems early but with February greeting us, I guess it isn’t.

I organized my seed drawer and discovered I collect seeds the way I collect books. Maybe this year I’ll get more of them in the ground.

Sweet and Sour Cauliflower

Y’all. This sweet and sour cauliflower is delicious.

I used this recipe from Creme de la Crumb, and I didn’t change a thing other than I used jalapeño ketchup (because jalapeño ketchup is all we ever have). So maybe I made Sweet and Sour and Spicy Cauliflower?

If you are a fan of sweet and sour chicken, this is a yummy vegetarian substitution. No, it isn’t the same as eating deep fried chicken, but we can’t only live on fried chicken. You know?

Truthbomb: A filling meal doesn’t always have to include meat.

Sweet and Sour Cauliflower

Daddy’s Birthday

Today would have been my daddy’s 84th birthday. He has been gone so long, it doesn’t seem possible. Daddy died in 1994 of colon cancer. He was only 57.

I’m older than he was when he died.

I think of all the things he missed out on, and it feels surreal even after all this time.

Several years ago, I spent a little time researching our family tree. I fell back into the genealogy hole a few days ago and found this picture of Daddy’s grandfather on his mother’s side, John Thomas McGougan.

I never met him. Neither did Daddy, because John Thomas McGougan died in 1935 in Hayti, Missouri. (Daddy was born in ’37). Anyway, Daddy must have been named after both his dad (my grandfather, John Homer Tate) and his great-grandfather, the man pictured below, John Thomas McGougan. I think they look alike.

John Thomas McGougan

John Thomas McGougan (b. 1869 d. 1935)

Thomas Lee Tate (b. 1937 d. 1994)

I don’t know why I’m blabbering on about this other than it’s Daddy’s birthday, and genealogy fascinates me. And because I recently read a book based on the biography of a Kansas farmer in the late 1800s, which has me thinking more about genealogy and our stories and the little things that disappear if we don’t write them down.

Daddy liked chocolate pudding and fudge. Momma often made both for him.

He liked his popcorn slightly burnt.

He wrote in very small, very neat, cursive writing, straight across the page.

He had a tattoo on his arm, and as long as I knew him, he had a farmer’s tan no matter the time of year.

He made the best pork ribs of anyone, cooked so slowwwwwww we nearly starved waiting to eat.

He could explain (in a way that mostly made sense) that if Train A left San Francisco traveling east at a 95 mph and Train B left Oklahoma City heading west at 110 mph (SF and OK being 1,300 miles apart), they would collide in 6.341 hours. And he would say this information is important to know.

Daddy wasn’t perfect—who is?—but some of my strongest characteristics came from him. The older I get, the more I need to talk to him.

Where’s Gracie?

Typical situation at our house. Annabelle lures Gracie upstairs, Annabelle rushes back down, Gracie is trapped. This happens about ten times a day.

Meanwhile, John and I are getting more steps in, which we need.

She did jump on the couch for the first time last night. So, it’s only a matter of time.

They grow up so fast. 😭😭😭

Schitt’s Color$

For fans of Schitt’s Creek, check out my colored pencils from Schitt’s Color$ (from PopColors). With color names like Ew David and Jazzagals and Moiroon, each shade brings back the magic of the Rose family.

I’m a sucker for Schitt’s Creek, and I’m still in mourning that the show is over after only six short binge-able seasons.

Pair my new pencils with my Schitt’s Creek coloring book, and I’m easily entertained on a cold, rainy day.

Schitt's Colors

 

Alexis

I know y’all think I don’t do anything but color and paint and eat, but I swear I’ve been working on my next book. I finished my first round of edits, started on the second round, and wrote an article for Front Porch Magazine. And don’t forget, I spend ALOT of time chasing Gracie around.

Things Momma Says:

I slept on the wrong side of the bed last night. I slept good, but the cats were confused.

***

Tomorrow is February. Then, onward to Groundhog’s Day. (Like every day lately hasn’t been Groundhog’s Day?) Please, Punxsutawney Phil, do NOT see your shadow. We need an early spring.

Remember in early fall when I saw the groundhog in our neighborhood? Maybe I’ll go try to find him again and get a more local weather prediction.

See you later, Sunday Letter friends. Try to act right.

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

P.S. My January 2021 Book Reviews will be coming in the next day or so. Readers say, “Yay!”

Filed Under: Sunday Letter Tagged With: Annabelle and Gracie, Schitt's Creek, Thomas Tate, vegetarian recipes

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Comments

  1. Cathyv says

    January 31, 2021 at 7:18 am

    Your writing about your dad, reminds me of my mom. She died at 60 and so often I need to talk to her! Great letter.

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 7:24 am

      Thanks, Cathy!

      Reply
  2. Colene says

    January 31, 2021 at 8:11 am

    I like hearing about your daddy. I just wish I knew what’s true and what’s fiction in The Accidental Salvation of Gracie Lee. I want to like him. Like you said no one is perfect. RIP Thomas Tate. My husband is Thomas John.
    I’m really looking forward to planting my zinnia seeds. I received some zinnia seeds from my neighbor who harvested them from her mother’s garden in Kansas. She has been sharing them with others to keep them going in memory of her mother. I’m sick of winter!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 8:14 am

      Just consider it all fictional:)))
      I bet you are sick of winter. The winter storm sweeping across the country right now looks awful. I always love to see snow, only because we barely get any. If we had tons, I’d probably not like it LOL. I can’t wait to plant anything!

      Reply
  3. Donna Reed says

    January 31, 2021 at 9:13 am

    Enjoy reading your Sunday Letter. It is always a treat for my lazy Sunday mornings. Tell your mother I said Hello. Bring on Spring!!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 4:50 pm

      Thank you, Donna! Yes, bring on Spring. It’s so cold today…

      Reply
  4. Sissy Abbott says

    January 31, 2021 at 9:53 am

    Love your Sunday letter! Good way to start the week off! I like slightly burned popcorn too! Looking forward,to your next book. Say hello to Barbara!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 4:50 pm

      Slightly burned, very salty. That’s how we always ate our popcorn and it was delicious!

      Reply
  5. Christina Smith says

    January 31, 2021 at 11:57 am

    I, too, binge watched Schitt’s Creek and was very sad when it ended. Personally, I think they need to make a movie like they did for Sex in the City. They certainly left the door wide open for a follow up.

    Gracie is adorable!! I don’t think I have the patience for a puppy so I will just enjoy your pictures and stories.

    Anxiously awaiting your next book!!!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 4:52 pm

      I totally agree about a Schitt’s Creek movie. I hope they will do it at some point.

      Honestly, I forgot how much work a puppy is. I think we are over the biggest hump though.

      Thanks about my next book!

      Reply
  6. Karen Gastler says

    January 31, 2021 at 4:32 pm

    I lost my dad at 50, when I was 18 (heart disease). It’s been a very long time. I agree, though, with your statement, “The older I get, the more I need to talk to him.” Isn’t that true! I wonder what it would have been like to have him around for another 40-50 years!

    Gracie is so cute. And how on earth do you keep Annabelle so clean?? I think it’s a good thing that our schnauzer is dark salt & pepper!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      January 31, 2021 at 4:54 pm

      50 is sooooo young!! Annabelle stays pretty clean without much trouble. I rarely have to bath her between grooming. Thanks!!

      Reply
  7. Lisa Pobst says

    January 31, 2021 at 5:29 pm

    I always, always love reading your Sunday letters…bless your Dad ..so miss my Dad too …oh..Schitts Creek had me hooked! Your mother’s “sayings” are just the best! Thankfully we are looking at short February 😊📚

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    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      February 1, 2021 at 6:50 am

      Thanks, Lisa! I appreciate you.

      Reply
  8. Della Louise Coleman-Peoples says

    April 21, 2021 at 3:09 am

    I enjoyed reading about your dad, he was a nice man. I know how you feel I miss talking to my dad also, I look at videos of my dad and talk to him, it helps seeing his smile and hearing his voice. I hate they cancelled schitt’s creek I been waiting for a new season this whole time, it’s such a funny show

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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (Now Available!)

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