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Archives for December 2012

The Angels Weep

December 17, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

Wild with wonder, the excitement builds. Only
Eleven days ’til Christmas! Counting down, dreaming, better not pout…
Eagerly awaiting a Santa who will never come. NO!
Praying, weeping,
Inciting outrage at God and guns. Mankind is
Numb, nostalgic for a simpler time, when
Good triumphed evil.

Angels, mere babies with
No chance at love or life, forever
Gone. Sweet innocence lost. Visions of sugarplums
Erased by dark madness. My soul is
Limp. Thin.
Sad.

talya

Musical Pairing:

Anne Sofie von Otter – J. Brahms “Wiengenlied” (Cradle Song) Op. 49, No. 4

A Very Brinkley Christmas

December 15, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

I love Christmas music. Christmas music in the car makes every drive better. A drive to Plano, a quick trip to the Texaco for gasoline, or even a long slow haul through Oklahoma.

Winter Wonderland reminds me of Brother Brown and Brinkley Chapel Christmas programsโ€”a private joke among the youth choir, and I use the term choir very loosely… We were an impressive groupโ€”me, Staci, our cousin Lesa, and the three Davis girls who ironically were also cousins. I was the oldest, the leader of the pack, but we were all within 3 years of each other. Without fail, we performed a Christmas pageant every year at Brinkley under the direction and choreography of my mother, church pianist. 
Staci, Lesa, Talya, Jamie, Karen, Monica
How excited were we?
As young girls, we wore similar floor length velvet-ish dresses sewn by our mothers or grandmothers. We loved those dresses. Those dresses were the ONLY reason we agreed to perform.
In junior high we showcased our more individually developing talents like playing the flute or guitar to Away in a Manger, more of a 1970’s variety show, made popular at the time by Sonny & Cher, Tony Orlando & Dawn, etc. One year we were even allowed to wear bell-bottom jeans. Eventually, younger Davis kids came alongโ€”Kim and Jeff and Mitziโ€”never part of the core choir, but allowed to play lesser roles such as lambs in the manger scene.
By the time we were in high school, we six girls were completely mortified by this musical spectacle. There was much loud protesting, teenage moaning, hair flipping and eye rolling. We begged and pleaded to pass the torch permanently to the younger Davis clan, but to no avail. Our fan club (mostly relatives) demanded it, feigning absolute delight each year with our performance. There was nothing much to do in Mississippi County. 
The finale was always identical, year after year, a Brinkley traditionโ€”We Wish You a Merry Christmas with the entire congregation joining in for the final verse (which was the same as the first verse).
Finally, Santa magically appeared in the sanctuary complete with red suit, fluffy white beard and a large burlap sack on his back. He spread good cheer and plain brown paper sacks to everyone. Inside, an apple, tangerine, assorted nuts, individually wrapped chocolate and peppermints. I can still smell that wonderful combination of treats. These goodie bags, a highlight and huge indulgence, made the whole debacle worthwhile. I made my chocolate last for days.

Jimmy Davis, church secretary and official keeper of all valuable statistical information, was Santa. He got all the best church jobs.

Santa Davis trades in his sleigh for a tractor in the fall…

talya

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Musical Pairing:

Winter Wonderland, Bing Crosby

How to Dice a Bell Pepper (and add years to your life)

December 14, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

During the holidays we spend precious time in the kitchen dicing and chopping, prepping for cornbread dressing and an assortment of sinful casseroles. For me, chopping was the most difficult part of cooking until I attended a Knife Skills Class at Central Market. 
Chef Tre Wilcox (Top Chef) – Central Market Cooking School

Seriously Life Changing. No joke.
If you learn the proper way to chopโ€”and there is a trick to each veggieโ€”you can add hours (years?) to your life.

Learning to dice a bell pepper was one of THE coolest things I learned. And yes, I am easily entertained, BUT if you have wrestled a bell pepper, attempting to remove the seedy-meaty part without it sailing across the countertop and/or without slicing off a finger, only to end up with oddly misshapen chunks, this is amazing.
Ok, ok, OK! So many people don’t eat bell peppers. First I say to you, the yellow and red ones are amazingly sweet and pack double the Vitamin C of the green ones, so give them a shot (Doug Henard) before you completely discard this veggie. Secondly, this chopping method works for tomatoes… Who doesn’t eat tomatoes? (Doug Henard?)
Rinse and dry the pepper. Be sure your knife is sharp.
This goes without saying, but I said it anyway.
Dairy Hollow cutting board/pepper/knife:)
Slice off both ends of the pepper so that it will stand level and upright (as if you were planning to stuff it.)
Slice vertically through one side of the pepper so that you can
lay it on its side to open it up like a book. 
Now you can easily get at the meat and seeds.
Lay your knife flat on the edge of the pepper 
where you opened it, with the blade facing toward the center meat.
Carefully unroll the pepper as you firmly slide the blade
over the pepper, slicing
away the meat membrane in one piece.
(Careful of your fingers…)
(I should have my left hand on top of the pepper, 
unrolling it, but that
hand holds the camera…)
pictures are blurry as my left hand holds the camera…

Voila! 
Now you have one strip of pepper that can be divided into two pieces,
making it easier to handle.
Discard the inner workings of the pepper into your compost or trash.
(This part is made almost entirely of water. If you use it in a sauce,
it will be soggy.)
Cut the individual pieces into sticks.
(The proper word is julienne.)
 These are perfect for a veggie tray w/ Ranch dip…
Line up the sticks and dice them.
 Now you have uniform diced peppers to stir fry or to top your salad.
Salad I made at Dairy Hollow:)
Yay! I told you. Cool beans.
talya
Musical Pairings:
Hongry, The Coasters
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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

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