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history of things left behind

September 9, 2014 By Talya Tate Boerner

We’ve quickly come to realize our new house is unique because of things left behind by those who came before. Three things in particular strike me as notable and interesting.

First of all, our front doorway includes a Mezuzah. The practice of hanging Mezuzot on doorways is a Jewish tradition that hearkens back to Moses. After receiving the Ten Commandments from God on Mount Sinai, Moses told the Israelites, “…write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates.” (Deuteronomy 6:9)

The Mezuzah consists of two chapters from the Torah written in Hebrew on parchment, rolled into a scroll, inserted into a case, and attached to the doorpost. There are specific requirements as to how and where to affix the Mezuzah. Here’s the one attached to our front door frame.

Mezuzah on our door - Jewish tradition

I am humbled by the history of Mezuzah and feel having God’s word on our threshold can only be a good thing. This is part of our home’s history so I prefer to leave it. (Since John and I are not Jewish, I hope by leaving it we are not being disrespectful of the Jewish religion. Do any of my Jewish friends have an opinion?)

Our home was built in 1876. Until recently (twentieth century), families put tangible objects inside walls to protect their homes from evil spirits, ward off disease, and encourage fertility. When the prior owners renovated our house, they found this child’s shoe (a common symbol of fertility) buried in the wall. I plan to place it inside a display box to preserve it and show it off.

During renovation of our home built in 1876, an old shoe was found in the wall.

Child’s shoe found in the stairwell wall (pictured in background).

See these old bottles?

old bottles found buried on our property

These bottles were discovered buried on the property. Since this historic area of Fayetteville was a Civil War encampment, who knows! Maybe some of these glass bottles date to the Civil War? Regardless, I am in awe of the history and grateful the bottles were left for us. I’ll be displaying these in our home too.

Do you live in an old home? Have you found cool things buried on your property or inside the walls? I’d love to know.

Grace Grits and Gardening

Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

Old houses have stories to tell of family and friends; love and loss.

 

“If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.”
― Rudyard Kipling

 

How to Host a Cake Walk

September 5, 2014 By Talya Tate Boerner

Mix together jaunty music, sugary treats, community camaraderie and what do you have? The recipe for a successful cake walk. Several years ago, I hosted the first cake walk for Munger Place Days, the annual home tour weekend event for our neighborhood. It was a big hit with kids and adults and has become an annual tradition.

how to host a Cake Walk

Yes, that’s my husband enjoying the cake walk with all the little kiddos.

When I was a kid, the cake walk was always a huge draw at the Halloween Carnival in my hometown. Held in the corner of the old auditorium, teachers organized it and PTA moms furnished homemade cakes. Silly me, I thought everyone grew up with the cake walk tradition. I was surprised to learn many of the adults and most of the neighborhood children had never participated in a cake walk. Wah?

It’s a southern thing. Maybe a small town thing?

The rules are simple.

  • A few weeks before your carnival, spread the word to neighbors and parents asking for homemake cake walk donations such as cakes, brownies, cupcakes, cookies. Designate a time and place (your kitchen) for delivery. Allow yourself enough time to divide and organize the goodies. Although the original cake walk involved winning a whole cake, I prefer to spread the sugar among the masses. Cut whole cakes into fourths, package 3-4 cupcakes together, group half a dozen cookies in a plastic bag. You get the idea.
  • A few days before your event, give some thought to your cake walk music. You only need a handful of songs because you will stop and start the music over and over again. If your fundraiser is Halloween or Christmas related, include a seasonal song. Play Sweet Home Alabama. Lynyrd Skynyrd always gets everyone moving. And remember, kids love whatever is popular. If your venue includes a microphone system, use the microphone in conjunction with your iPhone music. Crank up the tunes. Music is part of the draw.
  • Make numbers for your cake walk. There is no one way to do this.  I prefer to cut colorful circles from scrapbook paper (about the size of a dinner plate), add precut numbers (1 – 12) and cover in clear contact paper. Contact paper not only makes the numbers more sturdy during the cakewalk (there will be lots of feet trampling them), but when it’s over, you will be able to wipe them down and reuse them next year.

how to host a cake walk!

  • Place the numbers in a circle in your designated area and duct tape them to the parking lot or gym floor. Nothing about this has to be perfect. The circles can be lopsided. Don’t worry about perfect spacing or measuring, just eyeball it. Kids care only about the CAKES!

cake walk goodie table

  • Arrange desserts on tables near the cake walk. Yum. Everyone will want to participate.
  • Sell tickets for a quarter (or whatever is appropriate for your event). The first 12 children with tickets stand on a number, the music starts, everyone walks and walk and walks in the circle until the music stops. A number is drawn from a hat. The kid on the winning number picks his selection of desserts. A new group of kids starts the next round. This continues until all the desserts are chosen. In our neighborhood, there is no charge for the cake walk. Everyone plays multiple times. Everyone wins at least one dessert.

So don’t you agree that a cake walk would be the perfect addition for your next neighborhood get together, school fundraiser or fall carnival?

Grace Grits and Gardening

Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

P.S. Don’t miss Munger Place Days, September 19-21, 2014. Cake walk on the 21st!

 

Are you a list maker?

September 2, 2014 By Talya Tate Boerner

I’ve always been a list maker.

When I was a kid, I kept a list of all the books I owned, books I had read, and books I planned to read on a piece of notebook paper in the front of my binder. In alphabetical order, of course, which meant I was always rewriting it. I think in a way, this list making routine was a form of collecting for me. Collecting the names of books.

Maybe I should have been a librarian?

Even today, I have a strong urge to buy an old wooden card catalog case. It would make a nice place to store seeds packets. Or a catalog of book names, not that I have one anymore.

card catalog for seed packet storage?

Really, I don’t.

But I do have To-Do lists.

Since we started this process of moving from Texas to Arkansas, I start a new list every morning, adding and marking off as I go throughout the day. I admit sometimes I add things I know I will 100% do, just to have something to mark off. Like the dentist. Last week when I had a dentist appointment, I added “go to the dentist” to the list so I would absolutely have something to mark off that night.

The whole marking something off is satisfying.

Each morning I rewrite the list, including those things I didn’t accomplish plus new items. There are always new items. I’m not sure what any of this says about me, but I do stay organized.

Are you a list maker?

Grace Grits and Gardening

Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

Paul Simon, Rewrite

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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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