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Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

May 24, 2020 By Talya Tate Boerner 12 Comments

Happy Memorial Day weekend! If I could, I would give you a bouquet of red poppies…

This Memorial Day likely won’t look the same as Memorial Days of the past. (Well, it shouldn’t, in my opinion.) While the corona-craziness has changed the scope of our gatherings, (well, it should, in my opinion), the meaning behind Memorial Day hasn’t changed. And that’s what’s important.

On Memorial Day, we commemorate those who died in service to our country.

Poppy Symbol

Did you know the red poppy is the symbol of both Memorial Day and Veterans Day? I only learned of this poppy connection a few years ago while doing book research for Gene, Everywhere.

After WWI, red poppies were the first flowers to bloom across war-torn European battlefields. The seeds had lay dormant for some time, but after such disturbance to the land, they germinated again.

Imagine how that must have appeared—a field of vibrant poppies standing strong in a place of so much bloodshed.

Nature healing the land.

Photo by Beatricemeneghelli on Unsplash

Gene and Poppies

Gene, my father-in-law, stayed with my husband and me for six weeks in 2012. While he was with us, we worked a jigsaw puzzle together. The puzzle began as something for us to do, a way to occupy Gene beyond the constant drone of the television. What originally felt impossible—a 1,000-piece puzzle—came together in much the way my relationship with Gene formed.

Piece by frustrating piece. Day by life-changing day.

Here’s where a slight coincidence comes in. The puzzle depicted a flower arrangement, and at the center, a beautiful red-orange poppy. My father-in-law was a veteran of WWII. Fortunately, he returned from war and lived a long, selfless life. But I know with certainty, if necessary, he would have given his life without a second thought. He was part of the greatest generation.

Gene didn’t officially come into my life until he was almost eighty years old. And when he stayed with us in Dallas—six weeks that completely altered my life—he was ninety. Imagine all the people whose lives were not changed by their brothers or uncles or grandfathers or fathers, or, yes, fathers-in-law, because so many soldiers never returned home.

“With freedom comes responsibility.” Eleanor Roosevelt

We have a responsibility to remember those who gave everything.

“Without memory, there is no culture.
Without memory there would be no civilization, no future.” Elie Wiesel

This Memorial Day weekend, let’s honor those who have sacrificed more than we can ever imagine.

Let’s remember the reasons behind the sacrifice.

Let’s remember fallen soldiers who make it possible for us to wake every morning, complain about wearing masks, fret over a cancelled summer vacation, and moan about the price of ground beef. Because these truly are privileges.

This Memorial Day Weekend let’s remember to be kind and grateful, to look for the good.

(Photo by specphotops on Unsplash)

Happy Memorial Day 2020!

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.

Filed Under: Holiday, Life Tagged With: Gene Everywhere, Memorial Day, veterans

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Comments

  1. Cathy V says

    May 24, 2020 at 8:41 am

    Kindness goes so far in so many situations.

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 24, 2020 at 9:08 am

      Yes, it does.

      Reply
  2. Janna Kuhn says

    May 24, 2020 at 9:12 am

    Talya, I have spent this week with you and Gene. So happy you included the pic of him and the puzzle. I’m excited to review it when I finish.

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 24, 2020 at 9:13 am

      Yay!! Thank you so much Janna. I appreciate every single review!

      Reply
  3. Barbara Tate says

    May 24, 2020 at 9:55 am

    Well said. Everyone needs to be kind, gentle, and loving to each other. “Birds are loud this morning. Do they know I’m quarantined?” (Lynette)

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 25, 2020 at 10:25 am

      Birds always know.

      Reply
  4. Sharon Collins says

    May 24, 2020 at 12:58 pm

    My mom has sold her home and moved into an assisted living facility, so due to the Covid 19, she is locked into her facility. Due to a new health challenge she is now in quarantine in her room. Every time she goes to the doctor, she begins that 14 day quarantine anew. Yesterday was her 91st birthday. As we were talking on the phone yesterday about the changes that she has seen in her lifetime, she remembered it all perhaps with a slightly dimmed vantage point. I loved that her life story is bright in her remembrances. My dad grew up in an orphanage during the depression. Because he was an orphan and single, there was no rush for the Army to send him back home from Europe. Oddly, even though he surely suffered hardships, the stories that he told me as a child were filled with humor and pranks played on friends. I never knew about his medals that he had earned until he died. He was a great dad and a great American!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 25, 2020 at 10:26 am

      Your dad sounds like a wonderful man! Thanks for sharing about him. Prayers for your mom. I hope she stays safe.

      Reply
  5. Colene says

    May 24, 2020 at 3:52 pm

    Beautifully written Talya! You really hit the nail on the head. Have a great weekend!

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 25, 2020 at 10:27 am

      Thanks Colene! Happy Memorial Day!

      Reply
  6. Dorothy Johnson says

    May 25, 2020 at 8:51 am

    Thank you for the beautiful tribute to the fallen. It was just perfect.

    Reply
    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      May 25, 2020 at 10:27 am

      Thanks, friend!

      Reply

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Hi! I'm Talya. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (Now Available!)

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