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Words Matter.

December 12, 2015 By Talya Tate Boerner

words matter

During the past year, I’ve been focusing on words. Individual words. Sentences. Every letter in every word. Words matter when I’m writing a book and hoping to convey a specific mood or thought. Words matter in day-to-day life too. Ours is such a decadent society, doing and saying whatever benefits us in the moment. We demand “transparency” yet use words to disguise and confuse.

It’s called politics.

Remember the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never harm me?”

Hold your horses (another good saying). In time, most bones heal. The sting of words can slice through the toughest armor and stay with us, sometimes forever.

Harmful words affect generations of people.

The oldest reference to the “sticks and stones” proverb dates to March, 1862, when the adage was published in The Christian Recorder, an American periodical with a mostly black audience.

Later, the rhyme was used to fight off playground bullies. In the early 1970s, the class bully was as much a part of school as the class clown, part of the school experience.

Power struggle. Strong vs. weak. This is one of the underlying themes of my novel, The Accidental Salvation of Gracie Lee.

Gracie Lee, the protagonist of my novel, wasn’t immune to the sting of words dealt by the bully on the playground or the bully at the supper table. And while she may have felt fragile deep inside where dreams swirled and secrets hid, determination and spirit helped her deal with things the best way she could.

Words matter. The Accidental Salvation of Gracie Lee.

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Musical Pairing:
Sting, Fragile

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Comments

  1. Barbara Tate says

    December 12, 2015 at 7:50 am

    Hurtful words do stay with us forever. Very interesting blog this morning. Love the picture.

  2. Colene says

    December 12, 2015 at 7:57 am

    This may feel like the longest 46 days of the year.

    • Talya Tate Boerner says

      December 13, 2015 at 6:50 am

      Nah:) It will fly by.

  3. Kayla Shown-Dean says

    December 14, 2015 at 8:52 am

    What a coincidence: two authors blogging about the importance of words!
    We must have been on the same wave length this weekend, Talya.

    Thanks for sharing this great post.

  4. Dorothy Johnson says

    December 14, 2015 at 9:54 am

    Your observations about the power of words and the state of our society are so true. I suppose bullies have always been around, but I’m glad Gracie Lee has the spunk to overcome the ones in her schoolyard.


Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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