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Bear Down Baylor

November 23, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

The year I graduated from high school, Mike Singletary led Baylor to the Cotton Bowl. I took that as a good sign.
Mike Singletary, Baylor University
Mike Singletary
When Harry and Nancy Wooten invited me to Waco to visit their son (my boyfriend),  I watched the impressive homecoming bonfire and knew it was the college for me. Plus Grant Teaff’s worm story intrigued me beyond anything I had ever heard. 
At Christmas break, I vacated my Arkansas State dorm room, loaded up my yellow corvette and headed west. Although things didn’t work out with the boyfriend, I am forever grateful he connected me to Baylor.
Pat Neff Hall, Baylor University
Pat Neff
Today I should be Christmas shopping. Or brining a turkey. Or something. But I cannot do or plan one single productive thing until Baylor beats OSU tonight. (I did dig out my gold pom-pom and Baylor face tattoos, so that’s something.) 
Until recently, Baylor fans have endured less than stellar seasons. We were the butt of every Southwest Conference joke, even worse than the time-worn Aggie cracks. Schools vied to play us for homecoming game. Yet still we cheered and proudly yelled h-e-e-e-e-y sic ’em bears! at every opportunity. 
My sister and me - Baylor in the 80s
My sister and me with our 1980-something hair. Ready for game day!
I graduated and moved to Dallas.
I worked in banking.
I got married, had two kids, divorced, worked even more, remarried…

Life flew by. Friday nights were spent at high school games. We made occasional road trips to Waco for Baylor games. 

I learned to be satisfied if the bears simply showed up and didn’t embarrass me. We only lost by ten points? That’s a win in my book, I’d say…Coping skills—something learned at Baylor right along with macroeconomic theory and the Cotton-Eyed Joe. We limped along hoping for a football team while supporting the school’s other more successful programs…olympic track athletes…amazing basketball teams…
Yet still I waited for football. 
I moved my kids into their own dorms, not Baylor, but I was okay with that. Baylor was my special place. Each time I drove to Austin, I stopped at the Bear Pit to chat with the mascots. Will this be our year? Usually the bears were hiding…
Still waiting and aging and waiting and aging…

Then quietly and a bit under the radar, Art Briles breathed life into the program. Robert Griffin III was unstoppable. We began to remember what honest-to-goodness fun felt like, because we’d forgotten, or maybe we never knew. 
Throw What You Know - Baylor
cute kid at Alamo Bowl:)
And now—another miracle on the Brazos? 
Maybe this time we don’t need a miracle.
All that waiting and hoping and dreaming and praying…Give us this day our daily bears… it’s time.
Bear down Baylor. 
Do it for me.
Do it for all of Baylor Nation. We’ve been patiently waiting.
Sic ’em Bears!
talya
Grace Grits and Gardening
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Musical Pairing:

Blake Shelton, Sic ’em Bears!

JFK and me

November 22, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

Momma dumped a clean load of laundry on the couch. She folded towels while watching her favorite soap opera. I played on the floor in front of the television then pulled up onto Daddy’s leather recliner and walked around his foot stool.
When CBS interrupted As The World Turns with the horrendous news, she stopped folding and watched. I was sixteen months old.
This was my first memory.
Ever.
Momma. Laundry. As The World Turns. President Kennedy’s assassination.
Is it possible to remember something at sixteen months of age? Most people say no. Most people say I’ve heard the story often enough I’ve made it my own. 
Maybe, maybe not.
Momma says I’m thinking about Martin Luther King’s murder in Memphis five years later, but that couldn’t be the case. King was assassinated at 6:00 p.m. The world always turned just after lunch. And on that day, for a while, it stopped turning.

Dealey Plaza, School Book Depository, Grassy Knoll
Dallas, Texas, November 2013
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen. – President John F. Kennedy

talya

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CBS Interruption of As The World Turns


How To: Homemade Lavender Body Scrub

November 21, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

lavender peppermint body scrub

Today I’m blogging about my favorite homemade body scrub at Inspiration Cafe. Quick and easy, this homemade lavender and peppermint body scrub is made with ingredients from my kitchen and garden and makes a great gift. It will keep for weeks without refrigerating.

…not that it will last that long…
CLICK HERE to head over to Inspiration Cafe for the ingredients and step by step instructions.
How to make Homemade Lavender Peppermint Body Scrub

talya

Grace Grits and Gardening
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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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