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Oh the places you’ll go!

October 2, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

Fifty Shades of Grey - Going someplace different.

A friend recently asked what would happen if everyone now reading Fifty Shades of Grey read 90 Minutes in Heaven instead? I think he was annoyed that anyone would devote any time to anything unrelated to religion.

Interesting.

What if people who refuse to read one over the other, read both?  Or if those who never read at all read something? Just read. A paragraph, the comics, a children’s book, a blog post…

Oh the Places You'll Go through books!
Diversity stretches our minds, makes us think through the cobwebs. 

Books are great companions, some better friends than other. They find a way into our lives, drawing us in, teaching, helping us learn, unlearn, think, re-think. If we never grow and change, nothing changes. Or maybe a book reinforces what we already believe.


If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking. (Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood)

The places you'll go through books!

People who read a thousand books, live a thousand lives within the pages, connecting with the characters in the stories, the authors who formed the words, the other readers – those who suggested it, those who read it a hundred years ago. 

Certain books I read over and over, leaving a part of myself between the pages each time, taking something new with me at the end, a feeling, a thought, a memory. Years later, re-reading it, I find myself again, a younger person but the same person, familiar but with broadened horizons. Maybe I see it in a totally new light because I’m a different me.


Reading only one book, one genre, having one idea, one life is limiting. Never feeling the exhaustion of the Old Man fighting the marlin, never drinking a mug of butterbeer or eating a pumpkin pastie, never hearing the choiring of the trees… 

Never being sprinkled with pixie dust or reviving a secret garden or swinging through a jungle… Never journeying to Middle Earth or colonizing Mars….

Oh the places you’ll go!

Books are magical. 
Even the different ones.
They make you think.


talya

Grace Grits and Gardening
Farm. Food. Garden. Life.



Musical Pairing:

Narnia, Steve Hackett



“Think and wonder, wonder and think.” 
― Dr. Seuss

50 Shades of Ridiculous

July 12, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

just a quick update….

I am having a very difficult time reading 50 Shades of Grey. After all the hype, I jumped on the bandwagon afraid I was missing out on THE great summer read. So far I’ve been disappointed. Maybe because of all the talk, I expected too much?

It reminds me of my experience with Twilight. Although my friend Jenny and I loved the first book, we  laughed all the way through the movie while everyone else in the theatre seemed to be completely captivated by odd looking, sparkling vampires. Everyone knows that vampires DoNotSparkle. They just don’t.

Maybe I’m too quick to judge – I’ve only made it to page 145 of 50 Shades.But, it is full of laugh-out-loud cliches. How many times will Ana refer to her inner goddess?

Christian is way more creepy than hot. And apparently he’s too skinny as his pants hang on his hips every time he’s described, on every other page. Or maybe he needs to buy a smaller pant size? But, of course, his pants must accommodate his throbbing triple-extra-large-you-know-what… Pul-leaze.
Poor Ana is truly spineless and a completely unbelievable character. If she was a real person, I would be compelled to slap some sense into her empty head. Of course she would like that.
Apparently something is happening (or not happening) in our society causing women of all ages to queue up to buy this book like cheap crack cocaine. It’s a strange pop phenomenon.
What am I missing? Maybe I have no inner goddess.
talya



Musical Pairings:


Sex on Fire, Kings of Leon



 

50 Shades of Grey

July 5, 2012 By Talya Tate Boerner

Ok so I ordered it. After a brief discussion in book club, I ordered it. Someone had read it and that someone’s husband was reaping the benefits….

Of course what happens in book club stays in book club, so I’ll not say anything else about Friday night. Other than it is a veryfunbookclub, and afterward I was tired from laughing. But not too tired to place an order on Amazon.com with one quick click.
My mother has read it. She was behind in my blog because she couldn’t stop reading it. She provided a very colorful and descriptive review of the book to my friend and me a few weeks ago.
I’ll keep you posted.
You know I will.
Of course you’ve probably already read it….

talya

Musical Pairings:

I’m on Fire, Bruce Springsteen

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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of:

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (2025)

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