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the kitchen table

July 25, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

My sister and I spent entire afternoons at the kitchen table creating paint-by-number masterpieces, dipping the brush into little pots of paint and applying color between the lines. 

While Momma made lunch, we cut paper dolls from the Sears catalog. 

Balls of peanut butter cookie dough were pressed into sugary crisscross patterns with a fork. We waited impatiently at the table for the cookies to bake. 

From the kitchen table, we learned life lessons. Daddy grumbled about the weather. Friends joined Momma for a cup of Folgers. After supper, accidental stains and food crumbs were erased with soapy water and a dishrag. Each day began fresh at the kitchen table. 

Seasons were marked as the center fruit basket was replaced with an evergreen candle Saturday after Thanksgiving. After a deep fresh snow, we made bowls of snow cream with lots of vanilla and sugar. 

Momma cut dress patterns, worked crossword puzzles, called out spelling words. We made vacation plans and counted down to the lake over breakfast bowls of grits. 

Each afternoon, Momma sorted through bills, Columbia House junk mail, a letter from my Australian penpal delivered half a world away straight to our small, sturdy table. 

I studied for the ACT test, trying to block the sound of the television in the den, plotting my escape to college. Later, I couldn’t wait for that first home-cooked meal after fall semester. 

Shocked and numbed, we gathered around the table to select songs for Daddy’s funeral. 

History lives. 

Future plans are laid. 

All from the ordinary kitchen table.
everything happens at the kitchen table
Taylor & Kelsey
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Royal Baby Alert!

July 22, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

This morning when my iPhone tweeted, I cracked open my dead asleep eyelids to read whatever natural disaster or political alert came across before daybreak.
“Kate’s in labor!”
courtesy of morgueFile

Really? 

Seems like there should be more newsworthy events to broadcast at dawn. 
Why such fascination with the royal family and royal baby?
Are females genetically wired to soak up all things princess-related while fighting for equal rights and pay? Do we support Kate because she seems normal in a cast of untouchable oddballs? Are we only interested to see if she gets her perfect pre-baby body back?
I wish a healthy delivery for every woman pushing a squalling baby into the world, royal or regular. But I don’t know Kate. I have no connection and no real interest. 
I was more fascinated by Lady Mary Crawley’s baby on Downton Abbey. 
I admit in 1981 when my mother phoned my dorm room at 2:00 a.m. to remind me of Charles and Diana’s wedding, I watched for hours on my tiny black and white television. It was as exciting as watching a police standoff.
Maybe during a week when real breaking news includes Detroit tumbling into bankruptcy and a woman plunging to her death from the Texas Giant at Six Flags, we crave baby news. 
We need to believe in happily ever after.
Even if the princess (who in this case is a mere duchess) is a complete stranger.

talya

P.S. It’s a boy!

Shadow of Your Smile…

July 22, 2013 By Talya Tate Boerner

100 Words on Saturday: Write exactly 100 words based on the prompt Shadow of Your Smile…

photo courtesy of Free Stock Photo
A slight nod.
His wide smile crinkled the corners of his eyes.
Piercing bright eyes held my nervous gaze before looking away.
My cheeks flushed hot.
Our connection was instant, even from across the crowd of travelers in Terminal C.
Did he know me or was this a love-at-first-sight fairy tale moment?
Through the mass of humanity, he walked toward me, shifting his worn leather duffle from one shoulder to the other. His cornflower blue eyes matched his Polo shirt.
His smile faded from view as his arms encircled the girl directly behind me. The smell of his cologne lingered.
talya



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Hi! I'm Talya Tate Boerner. Writer, Reader, Arkansas Master Naturalist / Master Gardener, Author of

THE ACCIDENTAL SALVATION OF GRACIE LEE (2016)

GENE, EVERYWHERE: a life-changing visit from my father-in-law (2020)

BERNICE RUNS AWAY (2022)

THE THIRD ACT OF THEO GRUENE (coming 2025)

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